Masculine females attract more feminine guys in the relationship aspects. In a loving relationship, no divorce (or marriage) will ever be based on financial reasons. women. To bring you back to reality, realize that every man has both sides to this coin. People kill me acting as if this isnt real life and in real life people do things that they may not be proud of nor can they change it. I will say I still do think it is best for everybody to slow things down and if possible wait. And possessive so I stopped having sex with them. Why cant we they have their cake and eat it too? Her sexual promiscuity or lack there of does not control control his actions or level of respect. FACEBOOK is a trademark of FaceBook INC. Stephan Speaks | All Rights Reserved 2020. As of today a lot of women in late teens and 20's are in a "hoe stroll" and this article in just another trash it makes them have a reason / justifying their action. your such a b.s artist because you know in todays society get to much lead way with that b.s. I personally dont need or want a Relationship, but I also believe that women who dont ask their male partners how many women theyve slept with then they are desperate housewives. LOL. Men have conqiustadorian aditudes about many things including women. I think people need to stop judging one another and get to know a person for who they are now and not the person they were in the past. And, why would she want you after all your wear and tear? Its so they wont feel so bad about what they consider negatives about themselves or to justify them staying with someone who is totally wrong for them. I can understand your disagreement with people sleeping around. Redpill and PUA groups can't do that because their inherent premise is that women are lesser and that abusive action is acceptable toward them. Just women who act out and try to dodge the consequences of doing illogical stuff. and no teenage girls are not by right suppose to stay virgins until you come along at some point in their lives lol. love you back! I'm trying to learn how to differentiate but it's fucking difficult man. I respect everything you just said. Because in each of our lives (male and female)we have had that hoeing moment. I agree. Education can do wonders! Honestly, those dudes sound kinda suspectbut I was never the type to try to train a girl either. Dude, consider this: she's got the experience to know what she wants and what she doesn't want. Theres timing to all things, even discussion about lovers. For 10 years I was her world, nobody else mattered to her ,we have 3 kids ,then she became a bar tender, I was out, another Guy with a bigger d*** was in, and I was scum. I also had trouble trusting guys when they would tell me how they felt or saying that they were only with me because I knew or at least I thought that when they werent having sex with me they had it elsewhere. Yeah, but it does and that's the way a lot of people think. I am faced with a decision as to whether or not stay with my current girlfriend, because in all honesty I only wish to be her friend after finding out her past. I can see it now. C) Two long-term sex partners, had sex a total of 100 times, and many were threesomes? But I had a young lady who was interested in me. Thing is, a mistake can cost you plenty in life jobs being one of them. Here, we have a beautiful quiz for you. Facebook. FloralHybrid. Communicate expectations! Part of that process takes proper communication. Me personally i do not sleep around and i am not going to lower my standards and try and act like a womans past has no bearing on her present let alone is not relevant. During one of those sex talks, it was revealed that she had been with TWO GUYS at one time for a total of three encounters (about a month before we met). Judging someone for their actions in their past have no bearing on the type of person they or now. Lol promiscuous men have a degenerate mentality. Since a lot of people have a problem with the objectification of women let's view her as a human woman again. . There are many more core issues at play then simply the woman having had a promiscuous past. There is no way in hell that I can possess every great quality of all 15 of those men, and none of the flaws. sex with isnt an issue for either of us. The only men who have sexual power would be BILLIONARES and FAMOUS men.thats IT. Its just a choice u made and a chance you took. So it is hilarious when it is a bad thing to judge someone for something thought to be bad but dont make such a big fuss about it when someone is being JUDGED for doing something good. The first was with a woman who had lost her virginity to her bf not long before we got together. Its all we have. Personally, I think that men and women should strive to have a lower number of sexual partners but I dont think that women should try to act like men in the thinking that having numerous partners is a good thing. STDs are always a risk, but that usually comes up pretty early, and even if there is an STD involved if you really want to bang anyway, that's what condoms are for. Rest 4-5 wait for. Men getting around has never been acceptable behavior and never should be. In my eyes it matters is someone has had a decent approach to love and sex. Your source was concerned with the myth of high rate of divorce in general, and was not studying the relatively high incidences of higher divorce amongst women with more sexual partners. Your experience may vary. I know you will receive the blessings you deserve, just hold on to faith and take the time to forgive the people in your past. I understand how people may view that person, but that doesnt make it right. Id like to think that its not all a hush-hush, giggle-giggle, shameful thing and that being adult means we can handle the reality that people mothers, fathers, aunts, uncles, sisters, brothers, men and women have sex. Just wanted to throw out there that this isnt always the case. I choose not to do that because that is not what this discussion should be about. This doesnt make them bad people, but it does make them completely unsuitable as life mates. Women will always be attracted to a man that keeps scoring women It doesnt matter what you claim, what matters is social happenstance from evolution. I appreciated the honesty and had no problem with it. Men cannot be shamed or lectured into accepting women or marriage if the dont want to. on how people should behave with their bodies. Peace, I wish I could chat with you Boa. I dont think that women should be labeled as whores, hoes, or sluts simply based on a number. Yes it matters. If she does, thats okay! N yes i am over my ex, and thats why i can accept the truth and it doesnt hurt. It Sometimes some of the same issues that are hurting that marriage are what contributed to that women even being promiscuous in the first place. Its just not allowed. Thats it! Do you expect that guys would find equally as desirable and attractive as a life partner the woman who has slept with 100 men, as the woman who has been with 8? I understand a lot of what you are saying, but the main thing to remember is not to judge someone on their past. A pregnant woman or a women with an infant child on the African savannah had a far lower chance of survival if they didnt have a man to provide for her and her child and protect them from harm. I think at the end it all comes to self respect I dont think a woman who shares herself with anyone who gives her attention will be able to commit to a monogamy relationship It is just against the nature of herbehavior, you cant pretend to have adifferentvalue system regarding sex (how you call it in your post) and then embrace monogamy and change that values all over again Other topic I would like to suggest you analyze is the fact that if a woman has slept with 100+ men for example what is the difference between getting married to that woman that to a prostitute? Men and women are not the same and should not be judged the same. Men are not biologically and genetically programmed to want to share their women. Africa, over 60,000 years ago and migrate to all parts of our planet, women had However, now that Im older and know what love is I dont open my legs as willingly. With that said, dont expect all these women to reveal this information. As you stated, it ultimately shouldnt affect the current situation. So happy for you. Get out of the relationship, because you want Sleeping with a lot of people says something about ones character. The best way to evaluate who a person really is, is toyou knowactually look at how he/she has lived his/her life. Wow! It did For example, are you afraid you won't be good enough and she'll leave, breaking your heart? If shes cheated on 8 of her previous boyfriends then Im sorry but I think its valid to question her loyalty. yeah of course it matter because a hoe is a hoe. Some guys don't want something that was shared by several others. Also, punctuation would help. So take a second and ask yourself why it matters. SO DONT SAY WOMEN COULD NEVER HAVE THESE INSECURITIES AS WELL BECAUSE THEY COULD. It's more likely that my comments are going to garner negativity but I think it's good to have a healthy view on such things. She told me one instance where she went to a party and simply grabbed some random guy there and went into a room with him to have sex, and she was fully conscious not drunk. I'm having a lot of insecurity cause I'm getting involved in this thing with this girl who quite honestly by an objective metric is a slut. Thanks you! She says that she really wants me to know the truth about her past and how many people she slept with. I agree totally. Who are they sleeping with? Im just curiouswhat is your take on any of your male gender having premarital sex? No ones fully mature in their 20s. Thank you for your writing this article. Say what.. youre incel? There are 7 common signs a woman is perceived as low value to all men, because men simply perceive value differently to women. But what about the woman who is completely secure with herself, single, and likes to have sex. You are also right about men having to work harder to get sex. You can choose to disagree but believe it or not there are a lot of men with women they know have a past and are in great healthy relationships. Listen all the way through their logic, even though your blood might boil a little. There is more than that going on, and even the woman who was a virgin entering marriage can find herself taking that route if she is left unfulfilled, vulnerable, and an opportunity arises. She just revealed something from her past and instead of embracing who she is today you are making a choice to hold it over her head and view her as the woman she once was. I have self-esteem. I have seen women who had only slept with one man end up being loose while in a relationship. throw it in their face. Who has the power there ??? Wear and tear is evident on me too, example what if they give a woman an STDs that wear and tear hun. I say this because the double standard doesnt stem from men not viewing women as equals, it stems more from wanting to control the behavior of women. Thank goodness the world is full of people with different view points, and a moderate amount of people who are willing to scratch below the surface. As sad and hard as it seems its true My body doesn't want anyone else when I love someone. As I stated earlier there are many issues that may have led to the promiscuity and it is those same issues that can bring down a marriage. In this day and age, very few women or men will be virgins when you marry them. Any guy walking around claiming to be the son of God, with convincing ID, should be locked up or exterminates..By the way, that goers for child molesters also, such as the Prophet Mohommid. That doesnt define who you will be.. And since passing on your genes is the most important thing, he is attracted to women most able to get pregnant. Even research has provided proof that men do desire promiscuous women but only temporarily for sexual purposes. All of the real "Studs" that I know in real life have a lot of sexual conquests, but they are now in their late 30's and 40's, alone, and miserable. Personally, I am a bit old fashionedI just think that having so many partners that you are ashamed to admit the number is disgusting. Many women have overlooked certain needs just to be able to get themselves married. If you want to compete with this rest of the world then by all means go right ahead, Ill get in line right behind Wesley Pipes. Of course no one solution applies to all. They almost always act differently then those who havent. If you cant get in or she cant handle it can mess up the whole experience. Whats cool is having the personal pride, and self-respect to give your body to every man who shows you interest. This is life. Reply 122. Most men dont want to marry a person who is in effect a man with a vagina. But you would never have known looking at her. Or control and/or reduce the rejection that women are going to receive ? Hi Stephan. You know, I wish people would stop throwing the word perfect around. If they are still like that and this doesnt play well in your life, move on. deep. Thank you for your input. The majority of women are not sluts, as witnessed by the median number of partners for the American woman, and it is not hard to find one. Still, I've never cheated on anyone, not out of restraint, but out of genuine sexual loyalty. 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